Filed Under (Pancreatic Cancer) by admin on 21-02-2010
My father passed away from pancreatic cancer, which was a very fast death. My stepmother and I have never really gotten along but I would’ve never thought she’d change my own fathers will. My aunt (my dads sister) called me and told me that in the hospital while he was dying that she heard my step mother say to not let me in the room while the lawyer is there because she’s going to make sure I don’t get a penny. How can I prove any of this? I got a copy of the will and it doesn’t have me or my daughter in it only to say that she is the “trustee” and that if we fight it that we get nothing. I asked to see the trust but the lawyer never responded to me. Is it true that if my daughter or I were listed in the trust that we have a right to see it? I don’t know what to do, I only want what my father intended for us…although she’s probably spent every penny
Filed Under (Pancreatic Cancer) by admin on 30-01-2010
Ok this i mainly for business owner or manager but any help would be appreciated.
Recently I’ve been thinking about trying to get back into the work force, but here’s the catch for the last 10 years I’ve been fighting Liver and Pancreatic cancer. The Tumors are now stable and my medications are making the side effect manageable. I know there are some limitations to the type of work I could do but I think I could handle any type of computer related job or customer service, even retail would be ok if they would let me use a power wheelchair since I can’t stand for long periods of time any more. I have fairly good upper body strength but since my cancer is still active what are the chances I could get hired? I’d be willing to go back to school to get any certification I’d need. And how do I list my status for the last decade on my resume?
Filed Under (Pancreatic Cancer) by admin on 28-11-2009
I took care of my mother for the 3 months she was battling Pancreatic cancer. I have nightmares and break down at the drop of a hat. I have become angry, over-emotional and dream of escaping my life by running away or committing suicide. Is this normal?
Filed Under (Pancreatic Cancer) by admin on 28-11-2009
I haven’t had much of a sex life for about four years. They’ve been difficult years for both my wife and I. Decline started with my wife’s surgery for pancreatic cancer and a long convalesence. But it has not been that, but my own problems for the last three-and-half years. I realize there’s a natural slowing down after age 60, but I’ve yet to find anything that really helps. Early in our marriage I used various means to help my wife overcome inhibitions that had come from an abusive ex-husband. Somehow, after her surgery, I can’t get into games and roleplays as I did then. There seems little desire now for sex and the male enhancement pills aren’t working well for me. My question is, how can I become more active sexually and encourage my wife at the same time to have more sex, and better sex, more like before we both “shut down” sexually? Real help would be appreciated.
Filed Under (Pancreatic Cancer) by admin on 24-11-2009
Even though for years now i’ve suffered with anxiety and depression my mother was recently diagnosed with terminal pancreatic cancer and now I feel like i’m suffering from horrible hypochondria. I’ll start shaking one day for one reason or another and an hour later i’m convinced I have some horrible degenerative disease. Or I feel a bump on my head and i’m convinced its a tumor. The feelings are so intense that I feel like i’m going crazy. Is this normal for me to be feeling this after what I found out?
Should I see a psychiatrist? If so, what kind of medication will they want to put me on?